I've Never Said This Before With Tommy DiDario

On this episode of “Tommy Talk,” Tommy is joined by actress Jennifer Love Hewitt to debate all things holidays and New Year’s. Known as “The Holiday Junkie,” Jennifer is the perfect guest to weigh in on some seriously heated topics like: Should Christmas decorations stay up past New Year’s? The Holiday vs. Love Actually? Are New Year’s resolutions worth it? Multicolor lights or white lights? Should we really keep sending family photos every Christmas? It’s the perfect episode to wrap up the holiday season, all while getting a glimpse into our very fun and unhinged friendship.

This week, Tommy is joined by actress Cara Buono, best known for her powerful portrayal of Karen Wheeler on Netflix’s cultural phenomenon Stranger Things. With a career spanning decades across film and television Cara has become known for bringing depth, strength, and emotional nuance to every role she takes on—especially in the world of Hawkins. She dives deep into her most unforgettable Stranger Things moments, including the iconic wine bottle scene, the physical demands of filming, and what it truly means to be part of such a beloved story. Cara also reflects on career twists that led her to the show, from losing a role to landing one that would change everything. Plus, she shares what she’s most proud of in this role, her thoughts on the show’s future, and a side of her journey she’s never talked about before. Subscribe, rate, and leave a written review if you enjoy this conversation! Tune in every week for new episodes of I’ve Never Said This Before Executive Producers: iHeart Media and Elvis Duran Podcast Network Follow us on socials! Instagram: @ neversaidthisbefore YouTube: @ TommyDiDarioShow See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

On this episode of, “Tommy Talk,” Tommy discusses the return of the nostalgic Christmas trend! Are white lights, minimalism, and perfectly curated, catalog-ready Christmas homes becoming a thing of the past? Why are so many generations, including Gen Z, embracing a more nostalgic holiday aesthetic? From twinkling multicolored lights to “tacky” ornaments, to vintage décor, and cozy family traditions, nostalgic Christmas is everywhere. In a world that feels fast-changing and uncertain, more and more people are drawn to the comfort of how things used to be. This episode explores why those memories still matter, and why they’re shaping how we celebrate the holidays today. Grab a warm drink, get cozy, and join me as we dive into the magic of a nostalgic Christmas!

This week, Tommy is joined by actress Philippine Leroy-Beaulieu, best known for her iconic role as Sylvie Grateau on Netflix’s global hit Emily in Paris. With a career spanning over 40 years and more than 50 film and television roles, Philippine has become a symbol of confidence, elegance, and creative longevity. Now, she’s preparing to return for season five of Emily in Paris, premiering December 18th. She dives deep into Sylvie Grateau—what first drew her to the character, how Sylvie’s strength and vulnerability resonate with her personally, and how the character has helped shape her confidence (and unmistakable wardrobe) over the seasons. Plus, Philippine shares what audiences can expect from Sylvie in the new season and why this chapter of her career feels more exciting than ever. Subscribe, rate, and leave a written review if you enjoy this conversation! Tune in every week for new episodes of I’ve Never Said This Before Executive Producers: iHeart Media and Elvis Duran Podcast Network Follow us on socials! Instagram: @ neversaidthisbefore YouTube: @ TommyDiDarioShow See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

On this episode of “Tommy Talk,” Tommy opens up about navigating grief during the holiday season. Many of us feel pressure to “get through” the holidays or pretend we’re doing fine. But often, grief eases and softens when we allow it to exist; when we make space for it instead of pushing it down. Here are some practices that have helped me after the loss of my dear friend and mentor recently. For anyone going through their own grieving process this holiday season, this episode is for you. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This week, it’s a party on the podcast because Tommy is joined by Lindsay Lohan, Kristin Chenoweth and Ian Harding, who star in Our Little Secret on Netflix. The movie is about a girl who goes to meet her boyfriend’s family for the very first time over Christmas. But also staying with his family is her ex-boyfriend, who is dating her current boyfriend’s sister. Two exes under one roof for Christmas. As you can imagine, chaos ensues. Today, Lindsay opens up about why she was attracted to this unconventional story, the moment in this film where she just had to pay homage to Regina George, reuniting with Tim Meadows (a.k.a. Principal Duvall) for this movie, why Ian and Kristin wanted to jump at the opportunity to work with Lindsay, Kristin’s advice on how to play the perfect villain, how Ian felt about playing the quintessential hunky holiday heartthrob, what their relationships are like with grief, how they put one foot in front of the other when grieving, why its important to keep the people around you who bring you true joy, thoughts on a Mean Girls Christmas movie, what they each are manifesting for 2025, and so much more. Subscribe, rate and review this episode if you enjoyed this conversation!

On this episode of “Tommy Talk,” Tommy is joined by actor and entrepreneur Andrew Walker to explore simple, meaningful ways to practice self-care during the holiday season. With work deadlines, gatherings, celebrations, and the endless to-do lists that come with the festivities, it’s easy to feel run-down and stretched in every direction. But we can't neglect ourselves, and Tommy and Andrew are sharing the ways that they nurture their minds, bodies and spirits during this busy time of year. For anyone needing to take a deep breath and re-center, this episode is for you. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This week, Tommy is joined by actress Alexandra Breckenridge, known for her beloved role as Mel on the hit series Virgin River and Sophie from This Is Us. Now, she’s stepping into a surprising new character in her holiday film My Secret Santa. Alexandra opens up about what drew her to the unexpected challenge of playing Santa, the brutally cold shoot at a Canadian ski resort, and the joy of bringing festive magic to the screen. She also talks about the deep emotional parallels between her own life and Mel’s journey, the personal experiences that shaped her performance, and the ongoing challenge of keeping a long-running character fresh and grounded. Plus, Alexandra shares the holiday movies she can’t stop rewatching, the behind-the-scenes friendship that keeps Virgin River fun, and a childhood story she’s never told before involving bullying, dyslexia, and choreographing dance routines to Prince and Elton John. My Secret Santa premieres December 3rd on Netflix. Subscribe, rate, and leave a written review if you enjoy this conversation! Tune in every week for new episodes of I’ve Never Said This Before.

On this episode of “Tommy Talk,” Tommy dives into why the Christmas season truly is the most wonderful time of the year. From the twinkling lights and nostalgic scents to the feeling of togetherness and the traditions that bring back the youthful wonder we felt growing up, this time of year wraps us in one big, cozy flannel blanket. Whether you’re a lifelong Christmas enthusiast or simply looking to rediscover the magic of the season, this episode is for you. Happy holidays, and Merry Christmas, my friends. Executive Producers: iHeart Media and Elvis Duran Podcast Network Follow us on socials! Instagram: @ neversaidthisbefore and @tommydidario YouTube: @ TommyDiDarioShow See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This week, Tommy is joined by comedian, actor, and cultural commentator Matt Rogers, who has built an unmistakable brand with Bowen Yang through their hit podcast Las Culturistas and their ever-growing list of creative ventures. Matt opens up about the evolution of the show—from its earliest segments to the fan-favorite Las Culturistas Awards—and reveals how the duo is leveling up the ceremony for the coming year, including surprise guests and new categories in the works. He also talks about his many “side quests,” his love of pop-culture, and even shares the never-before-mentioned future of “I Don’t Think So, Honey.” Plus, Matt reflects on career shifts and the very real experience of unexpectedly soft-launching and then publicly navigating his relationship for the first time. He discusses going Instagram-official, how he and his boyfriend met, and how strange it was seeing his Instagram post go viral. Matt also discusses his upcoming Christmas tour, hot takes (like the claim that Jaws was the first girlboss), and a few revelations he’s truly “never said before.” Subscribe, rate, and leave a written review if you enjoy this conversation! Tune in every week for new episodes of I’ve Never Said This Before. Executive Producers: iHeart Media and Elvis Duran Podcast Network Follow us on socials! Instagram: @ neversaidthisbefore and @tommydidario YouTube: @ TommyDiDarioShow See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

On this episode of “Tommy Talk,” Tommy explores forgiveness—one of the hardest, yet most freeing, gifts you can give yourself. It’s a journey, and it rarely happens overnight. But by sharing some of my own experiences and the tools that have helped me along the way, I hope you’ll feel a little closer to finding that peace for yourself. Forgiveness doesn’t mean forgetting or excusing what happened. Instead, it’s about releasing the grip of pain, anger, and resentment. This episode is for anyone ready to set down emotional weight and move forward in life feeling just a little lighter.

On this episode of “Tommy Talk,” Tommy dives into a question so many of us wrestle with the moment that reunion invitation lands in our inbox: Should I actually go to my high school reunion... or skip it entirely? High school is a complicated chapter for most of us, filled with big moments, awkward phases, unforgettable friendships, and a few memories we’d rather not revisit. So is it worth the small talk, the curiosity, the nostalgia, or maybe even the rekindling of old connections? Let’s break it down.

On this episode of “Tommy Talk,” Tommy discusses how some of the sweetest successes come later in life. Success has no age limit—many of the world’s most inspiring achievers reached their greatest milestones in their 40s, 50s, and beyond. With age comes wisdom, perspective, and the confidence to pursue your purpose without apology. If you’ve ever felt like your time has passed, this episode is your reminder that your potential has no expiration date.

This week, Tommy is joined by actress Alicia Silverstone, who has been bringing joy to both the big and small screens for the past three decades. This year marks the 30th anniversary of her beloved film Clueless, in which she portrayed Cher—one of the most iconic roles in pop culture history. Coming to Netflix on November 12 is her new Christmas movie, A Merry Little Ex-Mas, a must-see this holiday season. Today, Alicia opens up about why she believes she’s had such longevity in Hollywood, why she gravitates toward roles that challenge her, and how she’s never really pursued the traditional Hollywood dream. She also shares why reading the script for A Merry Little Ex-Mas made her cry, her own holiday traditions, the constant juggling act of being a mom and having a career, and what she’s most proud of in creating the character of Cher in Clueless. Plus, Alicia reflects on the Cher quotes she finds herself saying lately, why there’s never been a serious conversation about a Clueless sequel, how she nurtures her mind, body, and spirit, what she hopes to continue, stop, and start doing in the new year, and so much more. Subscribe, rate, and leave a written review if you enjoyed this conversation!

On this episode of “Tommy Talk,” Tommy discusses how to spot narcissism in a friendship or relationship. Do you often walk away from a conversation feeling like somehow everything is your fault? Maybe you feel super drained or like you just can’t do anything right. Well, you might be dealing with a narcissist and not even realize it. In this episode we are diving into how to spot a narcissist in your relationships and friendships, and how you can protect yourself from allowing these types of people to fully infiltrate your life. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This week, Tommy is joined by actor Jonathan Bennett who became a household name playing the high school heartthrob Aaron Samuels in the cult classic film, Mean Girls. Since then he has gone on to star in, host and produce so many projects that bring audiences pure joy. He has been crowned as one of the reigning “Kings of Christmas” through his incredible work with the Hallmark network. Right now you can catch him hosting, “Finding Mr. Christmas” Season 2 on Hallmark and starring in his upcoming movie, “A Keller Christmas Vacation,” out November 9th. Today, Jonathan opens up about the strangest place someone quoted Mean Girls to him, if he felt like playing Aaron Samuels put him in a box for a while afterwards, what being a gay, closeted actor was like in the late 90’s/early 2000s, if he has had a serious conversation with Lindsay Lohan about a Mean Girls sequel, what his idea for that sequel is, how hard he really had to push Hallmark to embrace same sex love stories, the personal reasons he advocates for these stories, why Finding Mr. Christmas feels like his life’s work, his surprising revelation about Christmas, and so much more. Subscribe, rate, and leave a written review for this episode if you enjoyed this conversation!

On this episode of, “Tommy Talk,” Tommy discusses the importance of having quality friendships, and why it is so much more meaningful than being surrounded by a crowd. Quality friendships aren’t about how many people you know, but rather how intimately and deeply you are known. Adulting means figuring out who those people are in your life, and choosing to focus your limited time on nurturing the friendships that truly fill your cup. For anyone looking for a little clarity on the friends that you should hold close in your lives, this episode is for you. Here’s to keeping close the supportive kings and queens who make our lives so much better. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This week, Tommy is joined by a very special guest. Gio Benitez lights up your screens every Saturday and Sunday morning anchoring the #1 morning news show, Good Morning America. He is the Transportation Correspondent on GMA during the week and contributes stories regularly to World News Tonight with David Muir, 20/20 and Nightline. But perhaps even more importantly (to me at least), he is my husband of almost 10 years. Gio has been one of the most requested guests on this show for the last 2 years and the day has finally come. From career reflections to our relationship, we cover so many different things in this conversation, far too many to list. But I will leave you with this. When Gio asked at one point, “Is that part getting cut out,” there was only one answer: no, nothing is getting cut out...this is unedited and unfiltered. I hope you enjoy! Subscribe to this podcast, rate, and leave a written review for this episode if you enjoyed this conversation!

On this episode of “Tommy Talk,” Tommy discusses if manifesting really works. Everywhere we turn, there is a book, Instagram post, or guru talking about manifesting. But is this all just a trend, or is there validity to incorporating a daily manifesting practice into your routine? Today we are diving into what’s real and what’s hype. For anyone that may be a skeptic, a believer, or somewhere in between, this episode is for you.

This week, Tommy is joined by actor Max Parker who is one of the break-out stars of the Netflix series BOOTS. Max plays the powerful role of Sergeant Sullivan, who on the surface is tough dude, but in reality there is so much more than meets the eye with this character. Today, Max opens up about how he relates to this complex character, how he’s been waiting to do a powerful queer story, the moments that hit him the hardest when reading the script, why he’s proud to show a darker time in queer history, one of his scenes that absolutely gutted him, why living a publically out life led him to so much more happiness, his competitive disco dancing past, humping Cynthia Erivo’s tongue in a past project, the powerful message he takes away from BOOTS, and so much more. Subscribe, rate, and leave a written review for this episode if you enjoyed this conversation!